Pick Up Your Crown: My Return

I’ll be honest—it feels strange to be writing again after so long. It’s been years since my last post, and for a while, I dropped the ball and ran away. Life happened—messy, heartbreaking, discouraging life. Much of it left me embarrassed, confused, doubtful, and uncertain of who I was, what I was doing, and even why I was doing it.

I let the actions of someone else convince me I was a fraud. I questioned why God would choose me to birth Pick Up Your Crown while I was walking through a marriage marked by betrayal and deceit. How could anyone take me seriously? Honestly, I wasn’t even sure I could take me seriously anymore.

Yet here’s what I had to learn: forgiveness and grace are not just for others—they’re for us, too. We’re all real people, living real lives, facing real challenges. And the truth is, nothing we go through is ever just for us. It’s always bigger. Always connected to someone else’s healing, someone else’s breakthrough, someone else’s hope.

For years, I vowed not to share any of it. I thought silence was safer. But when your desire for God’s will becomes greater than your fear of people’s opinions, you choose His way—every time. And His way for me has always been this: to share, to speak, to write, to encourage. Even if my transparency costs me comfort, pride, or the illusion of having it all together—if it helps just one person pick up their crown, it’s worth it.

So here I am. Crown lifted, crown on. No longer hiding, no longer silencing myself, no longer doubting the calling on my life. Because I’ve realized this: Pick Up Your Crown was never about me being perfect—it was always about us rising together.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, unworthy, broken, or unsure of who you are—welcome. You belong here. May these words remind you to see yourself through God’s eyes, to love yourself more deeply, to stand stronger, and to step boldly into your God-given purpose.

I’m back. And this time, I’m not putting my crown down again.

Because your crown matters too much.

And here’s what I want you to know as we move forward: after being processed in secret and coming out on the other side with another win, I have so much to pour out. So stay tuned—this is only the beginning. Thank you for your patience, your prayers, and your unwavering support as I begin sharing more here and across my social media platforms.

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I LOVE Y’ALL BIG!! 💜